CONSIDER OTHERS WHEH MAKING DECISIONS

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Happiness is the state of fulfilment and satisfaction in one's life. Who wouldn't want that? Happiness is something most human beings desire and to be honest, it is the best gift a person can give to themselves.

Happiness is a choice, a decision that you make as a person and our decisions, on the most part affect the people around us. It's common knowledge that human beings are social creatures. We cannot live isolated which means that when we make our choices, we have to consider those around us. Family, friends and even colleagues; all these are affected by our decisions because when you enter into someone's life, you become a part of their existence and them yours.

Sometimes the hardest part of making a decision is considering others. For example a person doing a job they hate so much  decides to change their careers. The problem would not be the person's career change, it would be the fact that they have bills to pay, people to take care of and most of all, contractual obligation at work. It would be harder to make this decision because not only will the person's life be changing but also the people who depend on them.

It's inevitable fo some people to be hurt by the decisions that we make but we can cushion this by considering all options and going for a decision that causes the least damage to both parties. Whenever we make decisions, we should think along the lines of a win-win situation. This way we can remain happy because the people around us are happy and we are doing the things we love.

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